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Cufflinks Part 2: What Kinds to Buy?

1/16/2012

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_If you're interested in sporting cufflinks, but aren't even sure where to start (and maybe don't even have more than 1-2 French cuff shirts yet), you're in luck--I have a whole new section of the Butch Store devoted to cufflinks.  I recommend starting with three pairs, in three separate categories:

1. Basic silver or gold.  These may not be exciting, but they're highly functional and work for any occasion.  They can have a geometric design (like the ones in the photo at right), but shouldn't incorporate other colors.   If you can't decide between gold and silver, just choose whichever you wear most often, since you'll want to match your cufflinks to the metal of your earrings, watch, and/or belt buckle.

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2. Understated but distinctive.  This is my personal favorite category of cufflink.  It works for all but the most formal (think: tux) occasions, and expresses your style.  Choose something with just one main accent color.  I love these purple ones (pictured left), as well as these  banded African jade ones by

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 Ike Behar (pictured right).  You can even find good-looking cufflinks that incorporate leather.  This category of cufflink should be matched to whatever shirt you're wearing.  The purple ones above would look great with grey, white, black, purple, or lavender, but not with, say, orange or red.  They're fine for the office, a date, clubbing, or dinner out.

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3. Novelty cufflinks.  By "novelty," I don't mean cufflinks that turn into yo-yos or feature blinking lights.  I just mean cufflinks that are wacky and different enough that you probably wouldn't wear them on a first date.  Take, for instance, these Ed Hardy koi fish cufflinks (pictured left), which I do not own and happen to 

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love.  Or what about the ones to the right, which are not only versatile cufflinks, but double as working levels.   Just in case you need to like, um, put up a shelf or something while you're wearing French cuffs (hey, it could totally happen).  Some cufflinks are absolute works of art.  Others allow you to proclaim your support for gay marriage, or double as 4G USB drives.  Whatever the case, these novelty cufflinks should only be worn out dancing, or to not-that-fancy restaurants, or to work on a day that you're not meeting with a client or a CEO or anything.

I hope you'll think about adding some cufflinks to your butch jewelry collection.  I'm curious: how many of you are cufflink veterans?  Take the poll below!

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G link
1/16/2012 11:00:26 am

I love cufflinks and actually wish I had MORE opportunities to wear them.

There are some really offerings on Etsy, if you're looking for something unique. I've also found some great deals on more classic-looking cufflinks at Nordstrom Rack.

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Joslyn link
1/17/2012 04:47:13 pm

I love cufflinks, and I wish more butches would dress up and use them! There's something about cufflinks that are way too sexy...I think it's mainly the idea of watching her put them on, twisting her fingers just so...but I digress.

These cufflinks on Amazon (I really wish I could hyperlink...) are my absolute favorite. They go so well with so many shirts... http://www.amazon.com/Square-Cufflinks-Emerald-Color-Crystals/dp/B005LVLL1U/ref=sr_1_1?s=jewelry&ie=UTF8&qid=1326875852&sr=1-1

Please post more about butch/masculine jewelry! I need ideas for my girlfriend... :)

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Coolest Watch link
3/8/2012 12:05:44 am

Great cuff links. Love them, especially the basic ones. CLEAN!

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5/23/2012 04:54:15 am

Nice accessories, want them so bad ;)

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