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November, Gratitude, Etc.

11/11/2012

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Hey all!  So I've been in bed with mono for two weeks.  I'm definitely starting to feel better, but DANG mono can last a long time.  Being sick has gotten downright mono-tonous.  Har, har.  I've eaten boatloads of saltines, grown tired of red Gatorade (the original kind--this G2/G3 business is cray cray), and played dozens (hundreds?) of rounds of Gems with Friends.

Meanwhile, the out-of-doors has become downright fall-ish in my neck of the woods.  Though I've yet to consume my two favorite autumn foods, candy corn and pumpkin pie, I'm in a November mood.  Some people are posting one thing for which they're grateful every day this month (thanks for the tipoff, Bee Listy).  But I thought I'd shoot my proverbial gratefulness wad all at once (yes, I really did just write that sentence) and list 30 things here and now.  Boom.

  1. The election results!  A president who isn't scared to mention The Gays in his acceptance speech!  Elizabeth Warren!  Maine and Maryland!  There is much to celebrate.
  2. Fiction!  The pleasure of reading stories, of turning pages, of becoming subsumed in the printed word.  Right now I'm reading Murakami's Blind Willow, Sleeping Woman and Bolano's The Savage Detectives, and am enjoying both very much.
  3. My DGF (dear girlfriend)!  Her mischievous smile, her dancing, her sense of humor, her curiosity about the world--all of these things make me happy, and I love her more every day.
  4. A sense of relative security!  Sure, I have student loans up the wazoo and earn a rather wee salary, but on a day-to-day basis, I don't wonder if I can afford groceries or heat, and that is an incredibly comforting feeling that many people do not get to have.
  5. Coffee! 
  6. Beaches!
  7. Succulents!  Recently my DGF and I have gotten addicted to succulents, and have been having a lot of fun growing them.  You can propagate them from leaves!  How cool is that?  (Answer: very.)
  8. BW readers!  I love that I get to write something a lot of people enjoy reading.  I am very grateful that you read this blog.
  9. Friends!  BB, CB, KC, MK, JG, DD, SJB, E&E, MT, LR, TH, and many others.  Friends give me perspective and make me feel loved. 
  10. Warm showers!
  11. Being a butch lesbian!  I'm grateful that I can present the way I really am, be out, and be me--fleece vests and all.
  12. My dog, Scout!  Scout is my buddy.  Loyal, smart, playful, and absurdly well-behaved.  When I go running, she goes with me.  When I'm sick, she never leaves my side.  Especially if I'm eating something.
  13. Dr. W!  My therapist is amazing.  She helps me understand who I am, gain courage, work on my strengths, and be a better person.  She also has a fabulous BS-detector (important when working with me). 
  14. Projects!  I love having projects going.  Research projects, art projects, writing projects.  Projects, projects.
  15. Fruit!  Particularly pomegranates and Fuyu persimmons (the flat kind).
  16. Trail running!  I want to work up to doing a lot more of it, because I find it exhilarating and challenging.  
  17. Rainy days!
  18. Sunny days!
  19. Music!  Music can elevate my mood, stir up memories or make me dance.  I am also grateful for the ability to make up my own songs (something which is almost certainly not on my DGF's gratitude list).
  20. My new shoes!  They're making my plantar fasciitis feel a little better.  Plus, they are orange, and I love orange.
  21. My parents!  I am absurdly similar to them in some ways and absurdly different in others.  My relationship with them has evolved a great deal and their support for me has been unwavering.  I love them immensely.
  22. My friendship with my mom!  This deserves its own list item. 
  23. Home!  I live in a place I really like--both the house and the region. 
  24. Writing!  Of all kinds.  Words to paper.  Words to screen.  Words to napkins in ballpoint pen.  Words words words.
  25. My brother, sister-in-law, and niece (+1 on the way)!  They're an awesome family, and I can't wait to hang out with them next month.
  26. The smells on my drive home!  There are all kinds of trees on my way home, and I love how they smell: piney and earthy and dewy.
  27. Humor!  God, I'm grateful for humor.  I find many things amusing or silly or ironic, and I love seeing the world this way.
  28. My DXH!  I've written a whole lot about him in the past, but suffice it to say that I have an incredibly loving, supportive ex-husband, and I'm grateful that he's such an important part of my life.
  29. Second chances!  Whether it's a relationship or a writing rejection or a dozen push-ups, second chances are the best.
  30. Things to look forward to!  I love having things to look forward to.  Vacations, down time with my DGF, books to read, plans with friends, cool work projects...  There was a time in my life when I lost the ability to look forward to things, and I think that makes me especially grateful for it now.

What's on your gratefulness list, dear readers?  Comment below and list at least three things, large or small.  As many as you want.



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Heather link
11/13/2012 03:25:31 am

That was an excellent list! And loads to be Thankful for!

I'm incredibly thankful for the few people in my life who love and support me even when the decisions I make are different than the ones they would make. We need more people like that in the world!

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Ed link
11/13/2012 08:19:17 pm

Life. lifelifelifelifelifelifelifelifelifelifelifelifelife....and the people I love. That, beyond all else.

That I didn't give up when certain people expected me to. That I kept going when certain people chose to believe that I didn't have it in me to do so.

That I became what I needed to become. That I went where my heart led me. I'm grateful for all the stumbles, dead ends, wrong turns and face-plants along the way, because I learned soooooo much from them.

That there are people who believe in me. It stuns me every time I think about it.

It makes me think of a quote attributed to Zelda Fitzgerald, the wife of F.Scott (I'm paraphrasing a bit)

No one knows, not even the poets, how much love a heart can hold.

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Lex link
11/14/2012 11:53:55 am

Fabulous list that includes a lot of the things I'm grateful for too!

Yay for 2, 11 (though I'm not out), 14 (oh yes!), 16 (double yes), 22 (my mom passed away last month and I'm so thankful to have had her in my life), 24 (obsessions can be useful), and 29 (hella yes!).

Thanks for posting this and getting my thankful in motion. :D

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