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Over three years since I've posted.

9/17/2022

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[Tap tap tap.]  Is this thing still on?

Ahem.  Hi, everyone.  Well, it's been over three years since I posted.  I'm open to writing a little more now that I'm getting settled in a new place.  But I confess that I don't even know what people would like to read about.

What's on your mind?

What do you wish you could read about?

What have you been wondering lately?

Yours as ever,
​BW
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Sezza
9/17/2022 09:52:46 am

I want to hear your thoughts on queer culture! How it continues to evolve, how meanings of words are changing, how new words are being introduced. The fears of old guard queers versus the hopes of the young and upcoming. Anything about Butch Femme culture!

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Jen
9/17/2022 03:20:01 pm

Firstly: What do you want to write about?

And also: I'm interested in hearing more about your experience transitioning from "normal married woman who hopes she's not gay" to butch lesbian. I'd love to hear more about that inner journey. How did you come to realize your butchness? What was it like?

For myself, earlier this spring I suddenly realized that I had been avoiding the masculine side of me for years and I suddenly was in a place where I could allow it to be and express itself as much as it needed to. I cut all my hair off, started feeling extremely uncomfortable wearing feminine clothing and felt amazing in really boyish clothes that I'd never liked wearing in the past. My demeanor changed a fair bit. It's been interesting.
Alongside that has been a fairly deep unearthing of all kinds of beliefs and expectations about me, gender, sexual/romantic attractions, gender expression, worthiness... You name it! It has been a Time, I tell you! And it makes me curious about the experience of others who have gone through a similar shift in themselves.

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Rachel link
9/19/2022 01:41:14 pm

Welcome back! I'd love to know about what butch things excite you these days!

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