Straight Guy Into Butch Women

6/1/2015

I got an interesting email from a BW reader several weeks ago. I promised him a response, and with his permission decided to share his question and my answer with the rest of you.

Dear BW,

I am a straight man ..not bi or bi-curious. I love women. I have always been attracted to tomboys but now that I'm grown I have discovered that is my preference. I turn my head faster when I see a sexy stud opposed to high heels and a dress. I also feel the conversation or potential relationship is better. I am also amazed sometimes of the perfect bodies when those baggy clothes come off. The sex is simply better.

When it comes to relationships, I don't know what to do. The stud I was interested in/having relations with... We enjoy each other's company and sex. But she has a girlfriend, obviously. So I'm confused, probably like she is. Do you think she was just using me? And if so, why? We really mesh but she definitely doesn't want anyone to know... And I promised her that. So, yes, I would love to be in a relationship with a stud... Not that I'm trying to change her. I would not mind if she had a girlfriend... As long as I was her guy. Do I sound crazy or what?

Sincerely,
Confused Carl

Dear Confused Carl,

You don't sound crazy. Sure, most straight guys' heads are turned by skirts and heels, but yours isn't! I bet lots of men attracted to "non-feminine" women aren't willing to say so, because they fear others' questions and judgment, or because they think it makes them less masculine (which it doesn't!). My last post talked about the difference between masculinity in women and masculinity in men. It's not weird to me that you would be attracted to one but not to the other. Masculine women are women--and they happen to be your favorite kind. So, cool.

Butchy and masculine-of-center bisexual (and even straight!) women DO exist. Some of the bi ones only date women, in part because men aren't usually attracted to them. But this doesn't mean that they wouldn't date a cis man if the right one (like you!) came along. So it might take a little extra effort on your part--for example, dating online, going to bi mixers, or letting your friends know your preference so that they can "keep an eye out" for you. But don't give up hope! A straight guy into masculine women doesn't come along every day, and the right woman will be sooo excited to meet you!

And then, of course, there's your specific situation, which is trickier. You may be right that "your" stud is confused... but she may simply be bi. I can't tell from your email whether she wants you to keep your relationship a secret because you're a man or because she is dating someone else. The fact that she is with someone else, though, and doesn't want people to know about your relationship, means that unless something changes, you two aren't going anywhere. If you're okay with being the guy "on the side," fine. But remember that unless all parties know what's going on and are okay with it, it's cheating. This fact doesn't change just because you're a guy.

Correct me if I'm wrong, but I get the sense from your email that you're not exactly thrilled with the current situation. You might consider talking with her about this. I have no idea whether she's using you (as you fear) or whether she's genuinely confused. But it doesn't sound like the status quo is working for you--and if it's not, you need to find out what's going on with her. My advice would be to tell her what you've told me. Tell her you don't want her to feel pressure about her sexual orientation, and that you like being with her as a human being and need to know what you mean to her.

You write, "I would not mind if she had a girlfriend... As long as I was her guy." This statement confused me. Are you talking about a polyamorous relationship? About regular sex on the side? It kind of sounds like you'd be cool with the latter, except that's what you have right now and you don't sound totally happy about it. What do you want?

I don't want you to settle for this "on the side" business, though, if what you really want is a full-on, even monogamous, relationship with a studly woman. If this is so, know that you can get it. It might take a while to find, but it is possible, and you don't have to "settle" for what you have now if it doesn't make you happy.

Sincerely,
BW

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6/2/2015 03:20:53 am

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6/3/2015 06:04:18 am

Yes, the assumption is always that straight men are masculine and attracted to femininity in women. But this is just heteronormativity, isn't it, which renders so many of us invisible.

Speaking personally, I'm more feminine myself and my attraction is towards masculinity in women. Or to put in another way: I'm a femme man attracted to butch women. Or even simpler: femme attracted to butch. I'm guessing most people here have some understanding of that, yes?

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8/22/2015 01:38:06 pm

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I'm a fairly masculine guy that's really into butch women. It's caused me considerable confusion, frustration, consternation and questioning of my sexuality and gender over the years. I used to get all weepy watching the L-word with my lesbian pals, because I feared I would never meet a woman as hot as Shane that would be into me. Even after I figured out that I'm bi, I'm still and most predominantly into butch women.

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There was once a site for straight butches, but I don't think it's been active in years, and there wasn't much on it anyways.

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12/26/2015 11:20:43 pm

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1/17/2016 06:12:27 am

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2/1/2016 04:04:22 pm

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9/23/2017 12:36:08 am

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1/17/2016 09:58:50 am

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1/28/2016 08:13:56 pm

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1/28/2016 08:56:42 pm

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8/13/2016 03:43:27 pm

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2/16/2016 05:25:10 pm

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7/9/2016 03:39:20 am

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12/15/2016 08:18:06 pm

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2/14/2016 02:23:45 am

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4/29/2016 12:39:13 am

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9/14/2016 09:02:39 am

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2/16/2016 06:40:26 pm

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6/7/2017 02:18:28 am

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2/17/2016 11:28:45 am

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3/5/2016 10:16:40 pm

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3/8/2016 11:08:33 pm

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3/9/2016 02:54:48 pm

Hi, I'd love to chat with and get to know you better. I know I've been looking for a woman like you for a long time. I am straight like a woman for who she is. If your interested feel free to message me

caren

3/10/2016 05:04:57 am

Hi Dennis, yes I'm definitely interested. As I only joined the site 2 days ago (8th March '16), kindly advise me on how to "message" you back. It would be great to get to know you better - perhaps you might also send an email +/or phone number?
I look forward to hearing from you.

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3/10/2016 12:55:44 pm

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3/11/2016 05:26:05 pm

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3/13/2016 07:56:19 am

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3/14/2016 01:03:28 am

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Tomboy

3/20/2016 09:17:14 am

Thanks for posting this. I am a tomboy, that's attracted to both men and women. I haven't found a man thats attracted to tomboys in years. Most of you guys are on the east coast which is pretty far from me, but I am open to chat with the men and women on this thread since we already have something in common. I am glad to see I am not the only tomboy attracted to men, I started feeling like I was the only one lol

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3/20/2016 06:30:54 pm

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7/11/2016 05:26:29 am

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8/7/2016 02:10:52 pm

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8/13/2016 03:46:53 pm

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6/18/2017 05:36:03 am

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8/20/2016 09:33:40 pm

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3/25/2016 12:35:47 am

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3/25/2016 11:54:34 am

I've just discovered this thread and it has been a revelation to me both that there are a lot of guys who are into butch women and that some of those butch women are into men. This could be a life-saver to this butch-loving, hetero guy. Up to now I have only explored this via the BDSM world.

I live both in California and Europe, and would love to hear from others with the same, ahem, interests.

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4/8/2016 12:52:36 am

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4/4/2016 09:14:34 pm

Ah yes.. this site is fabulous. I'm a tomboy into men. I have dated men in the past who appreciated my masculinity as a woman. I remember a friend commented about my bf at the time: he likes them manly. She meant it as a put down but just goes to show her narrow-mindedness. I'm very attracted to masculinity as well but need a guy who isn't put off by it. I wear makeup but have short hair and prefer a more androgynous clothing style.

So any guys looking for a tomboy I'm in the midwest Chicago area. Feel free to contact me: metalilly719@yahoo.com

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7/16/2016 10:47:34 pm

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10/10/2017 01:59:29 pm

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10/9/2016 09:11:08 pm

I'm a butch woman who always dresses in male clothing, I have short hair and frankly I don't shave. My personality is not very masculine but is not feminine neither and I've ALWAYS been attracted to MEN. I'm no very athletic and in fact I'm overweight. NOBODY seems interested in me. I have suffered a lot of loneliness and depression because of my gender expression and sexual orientation in my short life (I'm 23),I have never date anyone!!! I'd never been kissed. I used to think I was a gay trans man and I considered seriously in my teenage years transition from female to male, but the truth is I don't feel as a man, though I don't feel as a woman neither. I hate having breasts but I can accept having them if I find a man who loves me for who I am. I feel very lonely. If there's a man who wants to date me for a serious relationship, please contact me, this is my e-mail: neverfindingwheretogo@hotmail.com

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4/8/2016 02:42:31 pm

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4/9/2016 09:57:07 pm

Hello All,
I am an androgynous female. Because of how I dress I feel like men definitely avoid me or do not look my way. I do not feel comfortable in high heals and skirts; I like wearing hats and don't shave my legs, but I like to paint my nails and do my hair. I like drawing from both masculine and feminine energies. Sexually I have only been with men in my early years, as I stated before, I have not been approached in quite some time and I am not opposed to it. I just don't know where to find the sexy guys who are comfortable with their sexuality and can look past clothes. My clothes do not take away the freak I can present in bed ;) hahahah If anyone is close to NJ please contact me ;)

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4/29/2016 12:46:02 am

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Mella

5/3/2016 09:45:49 am

Where are you located?

A guy

4/29/2016 07:35:49 pm

This was an interesting question and an extraordinarily thoughtful and insightful answer. There are many, many men (and I am among them) who are attracted to women but aren't particularly attracted to the cultural norm of "femininity." For some that may be an esthetic choice - they are sexually attracted to butch looking women. An attraction I totally understand, and share at times. But for others the appeal is more about mindset, attitude and refusal to conform to norms.
My wife is resolutely heterosexual (yay for me!), but a feminist scholar, fierce in every way and challenges me all the time. And I wouldn't want it any other way.

She has short hair and isn't at all "girly," but she isn't butch in appearance by any stretch of imagination either. Yet a lot of people would find her "masculine" or "butch" in attitude.......which is one of the things I love most about her.

Sorry if this is off topic, but I guess what I'm saying is that when I see guys saying "I love a butch woman (of a certain body type and appearance)," it's not really that different than a guy saying "I like blonde girls with big breasts." I happen to be attracted to a more butch looking woman too, but I am equally attracted to girly looking girls who are strong and don't take any crap.

There are plenty of guys are into butch looking women, but more importantly there are plenty of men (and women) who are even more into women that refuse t listen to what our society says they should look like or act like or think like.

Poly Butch

5/2/2016 07:32:03 am

This is badass.

I'm totally that Dyke that is occasionally interested in sex with bio guys and continuing friendship. I was incredibly lucky to fall in love with a Tranny who not only practiced Polyamory, but madly supports my open sexuality... the only problem I've ever had was feeling that my masculinity was too undesirable for "Bio"/Cis guys.

Thanks for the uplift! :-)

al star

5/2/2016 09:03:32 am

hey poly butch. we should definitely chat. hopefully you're close to the philly area.

Poly Butch

5/5/2016 12:10:51 am

Not at all :-/

California.

I'm still up for a chat if you are!

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James

7/14/2016 04:52:48 pm

Where in California?
I am in San Jose California. Hmu

Kol

7/16/2016 10:16:21 am

Hi I'm in California for the moment also. What's an email address to get in contact with you?

Poly Butch

10/6/2016 06:11:37 am

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Leena

5/2/2016 12:42:29 pm

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So I interest and men and have been for a few years. I usually date women but have sexual relationships with men. I didnt even know there were any men who who seeking. :)

I am a black female in my 30s. Nyc area. You can be close but not too close.. Lol. So if you want to talk hit me up!

I am also interested in meeting any other females for friendship as ( You may have also experienced). Trying talk to fellow lesbians who do not like men are very difficult conversations. Hit me up if your in the NYC area or nearby.

al star

5/2/2016 04:15:35 pm

hey Leena. Im in Philly...close enuff??😉

Leena

5/3/2016 04:16:19 am

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6/18/2016 07:05:22 am

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6/24/2016 06:12:26 am

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7/10/2016 07:40:15 pm

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10/1/2016 05:06:28 am

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7/3/2016 05:32:47 pm

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11/7/2016 04:23:14 am

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9/15/2016 06:19:22 am

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7/9/2016 08:19:25 pm

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7/14/2016 08:01:41 pm

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7/16/2016 09:26:54 pm

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10/19/2016 05:30:42 pm

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7/18/2016 10:03:20 pm

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9/5/2016 06:19:28 pm

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7/19/2016 03:52:56 pm

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8/20/2016 04:46:39 pm

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8/21/2016 07:41:39 pm

I'm a 30 year old black man still discovering his sexual attractions and tastes. I've always been attracted to "tomboys" and women with masculine traits (fit girls, muscles women). I'm also attracted to femininity so it can get complicated. I was looking this up on a whim, during those times when I'm feeling a bit lonely. Most of the time when I searched for studs/butch women who are into men I end up finding the very negative and judgmental end of the subject. Mostly black lesbian studs (not particularly attracted to them) pushing the narrative that if you are a man and you are attracted to them you are a closeted on the DL gay man. It was disheartening to hear and it made me not want to even consider ever approaching a masculine female because they might be like the women in the videos I watch disgusted by a straight man talking to them. I do feel a bit better reading the comments here from "butch" women who are attracted to men.

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11/7/2016 10:30:24 am

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8/30/2017 01:26:08 pm

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9/11/2016 11:56:01 pm

I am a very very shy guy who have set my heart and eyes on this butch girl for over 6 months now. We talk along well but I can sense her secret life, which I never talked about to her.
I dunno how to break my feelings for her. Can someone advice please?
Is it OK to send her a text via mobile, or I really have to talk it out face to face. The only activity we do is like go for long distance runs. Very seldom I have the opportunity to have one on one time with her.
Hopefully someone can advice me.. thanks!

Stud luvva

9/12/2016 07:36:36 pm

Shah,
My advice as a long time stud/butch enthusiast....you have to be willing to roll the dice and take a chance....the worst she can say is no.

What you say to her will be very important....choose your words carefully. One thing I have noticed about butch/ studs...they are going to play that totally lesbian roll until they feel safe and secure around you....

I would just ask her out to a movie...after an early movie then I would just say hey let's get something to eat...you don't want to ask for both at the same time...since you have six months in her company...she most likely would say yes.

I am curious as to what you mean when you say "We talk along well but I can sense her secret life, which I never talked about to her."

Shah

9/13/2016 04:08:01 pm

Thanks for the advice!

Yeah she acts all tough in front of others but she'd talked nicely to me. Signs like she throws pens and kicks me are those i read if someone is interested in someone else all show.

But each time I try to put words like you are a sweet girl and such, she'd get her guard up and asks me what I mean as though sheshe trying to say stay off me or you are just my bro...

Ya like I asked her about her private life she'd just shrug me off, change topic and avoid it totally. So I can't seem to penetrate to ask her about her life for now. Generalso like family yes I have asked but things like her activities she still avoid telling...

Like I asked, better for me to tell her face to face instead of texting yea?

Stud Luvva,

9/14/2016 09:24:43 am

Shah,
You have to keep in mind that most butch/stud females dont like to be feminized, esp in public. Telling her she is a sweet girl....I think thats a No No! A better rephrasing would be ...you're a really kool person and I love your swag...you are saying the same thing but it's not as blunt.

Another point of interest is lesbians, especially. The butch/stud ones need to know that you are never not trying to expose them. Kinda like if you had a friend that was a super hero...you just don't rwveal their identity to no one.She needs ro know you can keep a SECRET which is her.

I definitely would not text her how you feel...throw hints in person or just ask her to a movie...then take her bowling on another date...the more you take her out....she is getting the message. And y'all are getting to know each other better....with them it usually takes time...but they are worth the wait!

To navigate with these butch/studs there are rules to the game (some of which you will never fckng understand....LOL) but must be willing to abide by.....I am speaking from years of experience...take my advice....it's FREE!

Jerome

9/19/2016 09:40:07 am

This topic has been on my mind for a very long time and is very deeply rooted in myself. I am a 29yr athletic fit African American male 5,8 145lbs from Chicago,Il. I have never fealt the need to bring this up or discuss with anyone I guess I've just never wanted to risk being judged, viewed either as gay, bi curious,a and most of all I think one of the most looked down apon title in today's society is being "down low". Please do not misunderstand me I have absolutely nothing against anyone's preference. To each its own, live happy and FREE. I am a straight hetero male, I just really love everything about a woman and I believe over time that attraction and desire has expanded further than the normal guy where as many more things attract me now than ever. I am just really fascinated with lesbians but it is kind of a love hate thing lol. Mainly because I always want what I can never have. I enjoy a from lez couple just as much as femm and Butch, hell I even think a sexy female Butch on Butch relationship is hot. Maybe it is just the short hair cut style because I love straight women as well. But I am particularly attracted to a gay lesbian butch woman, she can look cute and masculine, or she can just look masculine with a descent face and a killer body underneath the baggy clothes. I LOVE WOMEN WHO WEAR GLASSES BIG ++. I find it sexy the tomboy look alot of times maybe because I am a guy who is all in to teasing 4play seduction etc. As far as straight women ho I find the highly attractive when the wear thing that are a huge tease, no slutty clothes, classy things that have a little tease to them and make your mind wonder, this could be dressy clothes or just something comfortable. Of course I didn't read every last comment on this post but from the most that I've reviewed, I just want to say you guys shouldn't just assume that (MEN) aren't attracted to you just based off your everyday experience or the energy you get from most just because your appearance or you come off masculine. There are actually guys out there who think STUD lesbians are sexy as hell and would like to show your femme girlfriend just how sexy they think you are and make her jealous even though I understand studs don't like to be feminized. That is the enjoyment I desire. Besides that maybe I could have a better or more define experience and relationship with a butch better than I can with a straight woman. Anyways I am moving to Rhode Island next month. If there are any lovely Les women gay bi butch or femme couple or single on the east coast (MASS,NY,RI,CT) who are looking for a cool respectful male friend that won't pressure you shoot me an email @willcornelius.87@gmail.com

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9/19/2016 01:37:46 pm

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10/1/2016 05:27:07 am

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3/7/2017 04:43:34 pm

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3/7/2017 05:02:13 pm

This is very inspiring for me. I've never dated men but in the last few years I've found that I am attracted to them. I've read articles and looked online for a website but to no avail. I worked at a lesbian bar for ten years and would occasionally see a butch woman with a man in a relationship. It always made me jealous because obviously they gave no thought to what other people might think and always looked so happy. You'd hear the girls behind the bar, "I can't believe she's with a man.." etc. not to mention what the straight male counterparts would have to say about the his choices. I think it's silly to cut yourself off from half of the world if you want the find love or someone to share your life with. So I tried dating a man for the first time two years ago. I thought he was generally interested in me but found out on our second date that he was just interested in hooking up after he had continuously reassured me that was not his intent. I went right back to women lol. I find that the stigma imposed on both sexes by the media and social constructs has made it practically impossible for women like me to date men. It's considered taboo and or grouped in with fetishism. I hate that, everything is all about sex and not about hearts. It's really a breath of fresh air to read all of the replies and comments here even if they are sexualized, it's nice to know that there are men that are attracted to women like me..

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4/8/2017 08:59:18 am

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4/10/2017 02:26:59 pm

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5/2/2017 02:56:25 am

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5/14/2017 10:37:01 am

just checking in to see if any butch women in the SF Bay area are reading this site. I posted a message about a month ago and it seems like there hasn't been much activity since then

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7/26/2017 12:54:50 pm

Hey Dan. This system is a little weird cause i guess it's not really meant as a "dating site" but you replied to one of my comments(that is a little hard to find). Shoot me an email, lorenzabasa@yahoo.com, I'm from Sacramento

5/20/2017 10:48:09 pm

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5/24/2017 05:57:52 pm

Well i never heard of that one before.

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5/31/2017 07:52:42 pm

Hey there.
I am a 31yo black male from Atlanta. I would have to say that i have been attracted to butch type women since i was young. One of my best and closest friends from that time was a stud. I have had several friends of this nature all through out my life and i have always found myself more attracted to them then the women that i end up dating. Like this man from the post says, the conversations are often more engaging as we often have more in common and similar interests.
Ive also have felt awkward about my attraction to them as when i have expressed my interests i was told that it was because i like men and i just havent come to terms with that yet. But i tell you that this is simply not the case. There has never been any doubt in this and i do not see that ever changing. But i do find butch/stud women often more attractive then "regular" women.

So i enjoyed this blog post and the insight you provided. It is also encouraging reading your response and seeing the comments that there are those that share my interests.

Now where in Atlanta, could i find like minded people?

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6/14/2017 04:30:56 am

I stumbled upon this blog trying to find out if there was anyone else attracted to more butch women like I am. I am 24 and live about an hour away from Chicago. Every serious relationship I've had the girl has had short hair and a more masculine personality. I find myself very attracted to that and it gets difficult when many of the women I am most attracted to end up being lesbians. Even then, some are still interested in me, but only for sex. I tend to prefer commuted relationships. It's also difficult because I may lean to the masculine end, but I still want the person to have some feminine traits so I still know it's a woman lol. If anyone has any advice or just is open to talking about this with me, my email is ndanielsporter@gmail.com or you can add me on Facebook (just search for my name).

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6/18/2017 05:57:50 am

Stud female here. Located in Cali-Sacramento. So glad I stumbled across this blog. I'm married but seeking a male partner(don't worry my wife is okay with it) HMU guys!

Dan

7/23/2017 04:58:00 pm

Hi Lorenza

I'm in the bay area but can easily travel to Sacramento.
Let me know if you'd like to chat.

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7/7/2017 06:08:11 pm

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7/24/2017 02:17:00 pm

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7/27/2017 08:55:10 am

I have been interested in a "butch" type female for quite sometime. It seems its very hard to find and meet up with someone. Just a lil note to all posting. If you would like to meet up. It may be a good thing to put your location. I am a 37 year old latino male. I live in the NYC area. If any females would like to chat please feel
free respond to this comment section. I peridiocally get updates from this site/blog

ThereUGo

8/3/2017 01:40:47 am

Mixed Orientation relationship. It is now politically correct to be supportive of everything under the sun. It's highly likely that woman isn't bisexual at all. This entire situation on this page is what's hurting the lesbian community. What's really happening in a mixed orientation relationship is someone taking advantage of what a lesbian woman is going through. My suggestion is find a straight woman who likes to wear comfortable cloths. That's as close as you're gonna get to REALLY being with a stud. Cause what you likely have going right now, is a friend who likes to get off with you. And what kind of "friend" were you to take advantage of her when she was throwing herself at you. None at all. You only care that you want to be with her. You don't care about her only what you want. Which is a masculine lesbian, someone who's clean and tight. - to ME, that is the worse kind of man. You betrayed her. Sexuality isn't what they say on tv. That's lies for politics sake. Like mamies for black people. Blacks aren't ignorant are they? Lesbians aren't what you think either.

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1/28/2018 10:14:14 pm

@ ThereUGo..... Not sure how you figure that because a stud makes up her mind that she may want some D on the low puts a man in the position that he is taking advantage of her.....she is also choosing to be with him....so there is no harm no foul.

I have been dating studs only for the last 8 years...they are out here....you can't stop it.

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8/3/2017 11:56:45 pm

Hey everyone, I'm a straight black man. I skimmed through most of the post and replies and boy am I relieved. I too have a stud friend and we are close but we've only gone as far as jerking and fingering. I have a feeling she wants to do more but not sure she knows how to approach the subject. She opened something in me that I can't stop. I want to be with more stud but they have to be a certain type. Not to sound shallow but she is the first. So not much to go off of. I'd really like to meet up with some studs in the jersey Philly area that would be interested in educating me more on the situation.

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8/14/2017 08:00:10 pm

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8/22/2017 09:33:23 am

Boise Idaho, 30yo white male. Moderately handsome, 5'11" brown hair and eyes. I have always been attracted to masculine women from an early age. As a teen and young adult, the social environment caused me to feel embarassed and fail to pursue some relationships with masculine women, and I regret it immensely.

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9/18/2017 12:27:34 pm

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12/13/2017 12:52:48 pm

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12/26/2017 01:57:50 pm

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12/28/2017 04:08:33 pm

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1/25/2018 03:03:45 pm

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